The week before a home tour you almost lose your mind. Or, you become completely neurotic. I can prove it.
True statement: The night before the tour I cleaned out my closet. I threw stuff off the balcony and into the back yard to avoid dragging things down the stairs and out to the alley. Yes. I did. And then I posted to my sister’s Facebook wall that I was throwing broken suitcases off the balcony (in case she heard a commotion in the back yard). It’s not an intruder. It’s just your sister.
I was nervous.
I liken it to putting your kid in a beauty pageant and hoping that everyone else thinks she’s as pretty as you do.What if someone doesn’t like it? What if someone thinks you have poor taste? What if someone totally misunderstands you or somehow gets the wrong impression? What if you put yourself out there and somebody says something unkind about your house or you? If you’re Taylor Swift, you write a song about it. If you’re Amy Jacobs, you just fret over it.
I had a stern talk with myself.
Amy: It’s time to let good enough be good enough. This is the battle for every creative soul—knowing when to stop editing yourself. This house is—for better or worse—my first project as a designer. It is a project I love which has graciously opened the door to other projects. But this home tour thing, if you’re a designer, you’re letting people walk through your portfolio—it’s much harder than putting your best pictures online and crossing your fingers.
But then you came.

You braved the weather and you came in droves. You came and took this little offering of a house and you did your best to make note of every detail. I was (and am) honored.
You showered me and my dear friend, Brad—who built this home—with the kindest of compliments. You were generous with accolades. And we were entirely humbled.
You for paid attention to the details we labored over and appreciated the elements that we so appreciate. A thousand thank yous—a thousand thank yous for roaming around and enjoying the work of our hands.
The vision we had for this house and the abilities we have are gifts straight from God. We are doing our best to use those gifts well and acknowledge that God’s favor is what allowed us to stumble into a project like this in the first place—we are still in awe. Thank you for reminding us that the house is rare.




Thank you, Brad Skipper, for building houses the way you do most everything—with so much integrity. And, thank you kindest-volunteers-on-earth for making me smile with your welcomes and warnings to all who entered.

Thank you, Allison, for keeping this real. No kidding. And for calling me to look at your front door—that was the beginning of a beautiful friendship.

And thanks, Allen, for coordinating the tour. Nicely done. Nicely done.

Thank you for leaving sweet notes on the chalkboard, many of which I discovered after you were long gone.


Neighbors and new friends, please, don’t be strangers. My house is your house. Faithful readers, my next post will be photos of the house sans my new friends roaming through each room. And, of course, more ideas and inspiration coming, too!
Thank you, friends.